Decision-Making

Decision-Making and Readiness for Sex

Decision-Making

Definition of Decision-Making

  • McKinsey & Company (2023): The process of making a choice.
  • UMass (2023): Making choices by identifying a decision, gathering information, and assessing alternative resolutions.

Reflection Prompts

  • When was the last time you made a decision?
  • What comes to mind when you think of decision-making in different contexts?

Readiness for Sex: Questions to Consider

Are You Ready?

Engaging in sex for the first time can be a significant emotional event. Sorting through feelings and questions ahead of time may help you make a thoughtful decision.

Important Questions

  1. Am I truly ready to have sex?
  2. How will I feel afterward?
  3. Am I doing this for the right reasons?
  4. How do I plan to protect myself and my partner from sexually transmitted infections or pregnancy?
  5. How will I feel about my partner after?

Key Considerations for Readiness

  • Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs): Anyone who engages in sexual activity should be aware of STIs and take necessary precautions.
  • Possibility of Pregnancy: Females who engage in sex have an increased risk of pregnancy, which may have significant implications.
  • Timing: Consider if now is the right time, especially as a student. Will this decision support or disrupt your future goals?
  • Boundaries: Setting personal boundaries and knowing your limits reflects maturity. Respecting yourself and communicating your priorities are essential steps.

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